DARING: What are your 50 shades? (TMI Tuesday)

I decided to play along with TMI Tuesday for the first time. I just finished this book yesterday, and much of this was already on my mind, so the title caught my eye.

Who am I kidding? It’s always on my mind…

What are your 50 shades?

1. I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me that:

a. makes me curious 

b. is titillating and sexually arousing 

c. that leaves me screaming and/or crying because that’s the way I like it

I pick B. Definitely B. And C. I am not a silent, suffering masochist. I love to fight it. *grins*

2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? If yes, please describe. If no, why not?

If it is someone I trust, I do enjoy it very, very much. Describe? I am a lazy blogger… but here is one example: http://www.aslutsmemoir.com/2011/10/public-exposure-third-birthday-fantasy.html

3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner? What kind of marks?

Bruises and marks, yes. Not scars. No permanent marks. A hard limit. What kind? This was the first time for me:


4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don’t necessarily like to do? Yes or No.

I have given consent for Sir to do exactly that. I always learn something about myself. Example: http://www.aslutsmemoir.com/2011/04/serving-alone.html

5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else? Yes, No or It depends.

No. I enjoy watching my lovers with others, but that is not forced. The only time I am ever forced to watch and not participate is when I have been defiant. A Slut Time Out. To me it is a punishment if I want to look away. (No example here. I rarely blog about those times.)

6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?

I say anything, everything… or just make growls and screams… and usually don’t remember any of it later. I wish I did. “Please fuck me. I want to cum. I want you to rape me and treat me like the dirty little cunt I am. I want your friends to use me and cum in all of my holes” is one example I will never forget. http://www.aslutsmemoir.com/p/consensual-nonconsent.html

Bonus: Finish this statement: I like being powerful in bed because __________.

… it allows me to submit. I am a submissive. I am a slut. I have the holes. I have safewords. I hold all of the power. I. Know. It. And I know how to use it… to better serve, of course… 😉

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the weekly TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment on the TMI Tuesday blog (and mine if you’d like) so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to from your website!

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