I had forgotten what this is all about

Last night, after a rough 24 hours, I was almost ready to doze off when several messages popped up. I didn’t know this person, and he had no way to know I was online right then reading them. Normally unsolicited messages are rude and ignored. These made a horrible day good again.

“Hello ma’am! I just wanted to thank you, I’ve been reading your blog for several months after a friend recommended it to me.

You really inspired me to explore my own nature, my own inner sexual kinks and life in ways I had never had a chance to before.

I’m currently exploring my own submissive followings and desires for the first time ever, and have found a wonderful Mistress.

I just wanted to let you know, since I’ve read you’ve had a bad day, that you’ve made my days a bit brighter.”

This memoir is for me. A scrapbook and journal combined for those memories I wish to remember and the lessons I need to remember. So why share it?

It’s not about popularity. It’s not about followers, page hits, contests, or starred tweets. I was forgetting that.

This is about me being myself, exploring myself and my kink. It’s about being real. Being approachable, open and understanding. People talk back. I answer questions, always learning myself as I do. I meet people, connecting, and helping each other even if it is just sharing a smile.

It’s not about numbers. It’s about people. And the memories… such wonderful memories…

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5 Responses
  1. Dusk says:

    This was really inspiring to read – some days I have to remind myself of this as well. I think it's wonderful you got some great confirmation from a reader that your writing is doing great things.
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  2. Molly says:

    Bravo….I completely agree. I have been asked why I don't have ads on my blog and I replied because it unless I find a product i like that i would happily have their then i am not interest and it would detract from the content which is, like you, my journel, my little place to write what I want to write about.

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  3. delectable_dea says:

    I am thankful for your blog. My Master picks on me in a loving way because of the blogs I read. I told him they are my online support group. It is comforting to know there are other women out there like myself…those of of us who have families but still embrace our slutty side. I am in an open marriage with a man who is vanilla, have a 7 year old daughter, and a kinky side which I did not know existed until I met my Master.

  4. Hubman says:

    Every once in a while, often when I'm down on blogging in general, I'll get a kind message from a reader I never heard of before, offering some complimentary or thankful words.

    I know how you feel
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  5. Chris says:

    I still feel slightly embarrassed, but very happy that you found my DM nice enough to permanently add to your blog. Thank you again for all the wonderful posts, inspiration and confidence you've given me.