I Said "I Will Accept Any Decision Sir Makes."

Finally got up the courage to just ask:


A little later after I thought for a bit:

Even later with one of my girl friends:

C: Is that how you feel?


ME: Yes


ME: Hurt. Sad. But not angry. And still want to be able to talk to him.


C: I’m so sorry


ME: At least I had a week to prepare for this…


C: Yes….I hope you get some peace finally


ME: When I sat down to write that last message I felt better. Sounded like he already made up his mind but didn’t know how to tell me. Lets him off the hook too, and hopefully we can still be friends. Never had a bad break up. Don’t want to start now.


C: Very good girl


C: I would have been so tempted to go off


C: You did a good job


ME: I really am not angry. This whole week I could not get mad at him. Trust me, I tried.


C: Wow….


ME: What was there to be mad at him for?


C: I don’t know….I still am trying to understand the relationship….


ME: Supposed to be and was my teacher.


ME: Master, not boyfriend


C: Right


C: I am getting that slowly


ME: The dependence upon him was my own from giving myself so much


ME: Not reciprocated. Fondness perhaps…


C: I cannot imagine giving all that and NOT getting attached


ME: Well, I did


C: Or for him to dismiss that so easily


C: That is the part that I do not understand


ME: He was struggling still tonight.


C: Yes


C: And, maybe he will not


ME: ?


C: Dismiss


ME: The fondness or me?


C: You


ME: He has been online and active for one hour and five minutes since I sent that message


C: How do you know?


ME: He goes idle


ME: Still on


ME: Rarely idle


C: I’m sorry


ME: Don’t be


C: I really want to say something else, but I won’t


ME: Say it


C: No….it’s not right…I cannot pretend that I understand


ME: He just logged off. Bedtime.


C: But, if I could I would say he is being a big gifuckingnormous dickhead


C: There


C: Got it out


ME: lol


ME: He did nothing wrong. I fucked around, remember?


C: Is that what he is most mad about?


ME: No way to know. Told me a long time ago if I did it would be over. No questions asked.


C: Then why did you do it?


ME: Hello…. slut…


ME: Not really. Well, yes part of it


C: If you say so


ME: I have never been able to be faithful to any man


C: It’s hard for me to get used to someone calling themselves a slut


C: I mean it’s fine


C: I just have a hard time with it


ME: Would you prefer it if I just said ‘I love men’


C: There you go!


C: I like that


ME: Slut is easier to type…


C: True


C: But, it has such a bad connotation


ME: Not to us sluts…


C: It’s kind of like you are taking back the word…yes?


ME: The power of the pussy…. lol


C: Yes


C: I think I am going to bed


C: Are you going to be ok?


ME: Yes

And the next morning (sent before he woke up):


Me: Good morning Mark. Nope. Too weird. I think I will stick with good morning Sir for now. I still feel great respect for you, even though you aren’t going to boss me around anymore. ;P

Me: I meant what I said last night about considering you a friend. You will always be more than that, very happy memories, but I woke up this morning feeling good about this. I am sorry if I hurt you at all in this. The drama earlier last week had nothing to do with you. It was all about events in my life I wasn’t bothering you with in your “happy place”, compounded by my feelings of guilt for my own fucked up way of trying to “cope”.

Me: It really doesn’t matter what your reasons are. We are grown ups, and you weren’t my “boyfriend”. I would still love to be able to talk to you about anything, and know that you can still do the same with me. No worries about me trying to “change your mind” or “get you back”. I never expected it to last forever. I never expected it to last longer than that first time. I know I am not Gina, but I understand why she still wants to be friends with you. I hope I can be allowed to do the same. You are an amazing man, Dom, and the best damned lover I have ever had. (That’s saying a lot!) I pity the guy that thinks he will even be able to come close. 😀
 I really do feel good about this. I learned so much from Sir, and am so glad to have had what time I did with him. Now I guess I will have to occupy myself with some other cock(s). 😉 No more Masters for me, though. I have learned to never say never, but not for any time at all in the foreseeable future. I will own myself.

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