How Wet is Too Wet?

I read things all the time about how to increase female lubrication.  The lube section even at “vanilla” stores is vast.  I feel very odd sometimes because I have the opposite problem.  I am wet all the time.  Really, really wet.  I don’t need physical stimulation to become lubed.  I don’t even have to be thinking dirty thoughts.  (I am sure that each day, at least 15 minutes occasionally go by where I don’t think about sex.)

Let me clarify, I am not talking about gushing or squirting during orgasm.  I am talking about soaking my pants if there is simply a breeze blowing.  Sir comments about it often.  Phrases “sloppy cunt”, “fucking faucet” and “puddles on the carpet”, while degrading in a good way, also often really do embarrass me in a bad way. 

During sex ‘slippery’ in an understatement, and often there is no friction at all. A little friction is the point, isn’t it?  The excessive wetness also often causes those oh-so-sexy squishy, farty sounds.  A towel is required nearby.  Sir does not seem to really mind.  In fact he seems to take great pride when I am literally dripping onto the floor.

I think the benefits do outweigh the negatives, but I wonder sometimes how common this is.  I have never personally met another woman with this issue.  Not that I know of, at least.  Being bisexual and working with strippers for so long, this topic of conversation came up frequently.  But I was always the one staying quiet while the others talked about being too dry. 

Other men have said that they had never been with someone that gets as wet as I do.  They mention it repeatedly.  Sometimes they stress it so much I begin to feel a bit like a freak.

I see others on the internet with the same issue, but have not seen any studies on what causes it, or percentages of women that get “too wet”.  How wet is too wet, anyway?  How do men feel on this?  How do other women feel?  Hmmm…  Maybe I could get a grant and research it myself…
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  1. onesubsmission says:

    I realise this is an old post now – but I just saw it coz you re-linked it. I have exactly the same problem!!! Always soaked 🙁 So easy to leave an embarrassing little damp patch where you didn't mean to. I think most of the time it's a good thing, and men generally seem to take it as a massive compliment, but still… I totally understand the confusion.

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